Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Should I keep friends with benefits?
So I was with this girl as friends with benefits for about six months. She always told me she was not ready to be a gf. I was fine with that and respected it. I also knew this was true because she just got a divorce and I knew she needed to have her freedom after being with a guy for ten years. So about a month ago she tells me she is going to be this other guys gf and needed to at least stop our benefits. I was like well ok if that's what you think you want, even though I knew she is not ready to be a gf. Now first of all the with us was over the top and we can not hang out without getting it on. So I have backed off and kept minimal contact to only on Yahoo IM. So we were chatting and it went into a little ual chat and I was like I don't care who you are with but your pu-ssy will always be mine. She comes back and says that is really bold and very hot.(How would you feel if a guy said that to you ladies?) I then said we should hook up soon and she says she would have a hard time with it since she spends so much time with her bf but then she said well on weekend afternoons she could. But she still said she would feel guilty. I then said well do you see yourself being married to this guy. She said no. So I was like well you should do what you want to do and this is not the time for you to be tied down to anyone. We then stop and she said well she has a lot of thinking to do. So what do you think, is she still really confused. It seems like she still wants to play around and not be tied to one guy right now. Also I have not pressure her because a few other times we chat she has offered to hang out without me bringing it up.
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